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THE COST OF SELF AWARENESS
I live by very simple principles. Those closest to me me know one of these to be how I won’t stop talking about this ‘unwritten social contract’. To me, we all have an obligation in every human relationship. Not contractual one, but I genuinely believe that if our paths cross, even for a moment, we… Continue reading
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Finding the courage to stand in my truth, even when others don’t see the struggle behind it.
I have felt isolated for the best part of 2 years now even in the midst of family and friends. Many of you have this notion that, since l was able to cope fine with undiagnosed neurodivergence for the first 33 years of my life, why am 1 suddenly making a big fuss about it… Continue reading
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BOYS ARE ALLOWED TO PUNCH!
Not Wealth, money, attention, not even contentment is a cure for poverty. If they were, the Kardashians wouldn’t still be working so hard. I am a feminist and boy! What a past couple of days it has been for us. Because, tell me, how do you begin to explain to a girl child that Charisma,… Continue reading
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The Cost of Forcing Neurodivergent Minds into Linear Systems
DECISION, DESCISIONS Preparing for the long-term sickness meeting on the 3rd of Feb 2026, I find myself at a crossroads. The looming prospect that this could well be my last day at this job, my contract about to be terminated due to medical reasons is a painful reminder of my past experiences. It’s like a… Continue reading
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Meet Amersham
I moved abroad in March 2021 and lived in Grimsby, a small town in the East midlands of England. I was there for one and a half years. I met this Nigerian guy who owned an African shop, he told me I could actually own a house within one year of working for the NHS.… Continue reading
